Diwali has always been a time of joy, togetherness, and rekindling old memories. This year, the festival brought a special sense of closeness as my siblings and I sat with our mother, reliving our childhood stories. As we laughed about old memories — like our mischievous cow ‘Soma’ causing chaos every time a guest arrived or the carefree nights spent counting stars from the rooftop — it felt as if we were transported back to those simpler times.
Today, as an eldest son, a husband, father, brother, and colleague, Diwali still serves as a bridge to those cherished memories of carefree days. Even though our lives have evolved and our childhood home has been transformed, the warmth of those memories and the laughter we share keep the spirit of Diwali alive. It’s this bond and the enduring love that make the festival so meaningful, year after year.
Diwali and the Journey of Personal Growth
As a child, Diwali was all about firecrackers, sweets, and fun. Sitting through the pooja felt like a formality before running off to light fireworks. Now, watching my own children squirm with the same restlessness, I’m reminded of my own impatience back then. The characters in our Diwali celebration have changed — my father and grandmother are no longer here, my sisters are married, and our children now take center stage — but the spirit remains, as does the tradition of coming together.
This passage of time has shown me how each diya we light connects the past to the future, symbolizing a bridge between generations. Each flame not only honors cherished memories but also passes on values and traditions to the next generation. Diwali is no longer just an external celebration; it’s a moment to come together, build new memories, and rekindle the old ones, filling us with a sense of continuity and renewed energy. It’s in these shared experiences that we find strength, warmth, and a reminder of what truly matters.
Lakshmi and Saraswati: Balancing Prosperity with Wisdom
As children, prosperity during Diwali meant sweets, new clothes, and presents. But over the years, I’ve come to see the deeper meaning in the balance between wealth and wisdom. Growing up, our grandmother would often remind us of an old saying: “Goddess Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth, doesn’t stay long without Saraswati, the goddess of wisdom.” She would say this to encourage us to pursue our studies diligently, believing that true prosperity comes not just from material wealth but from the richness of knowledge and insight.
Today, as I reflect on Diwali’s meaning, I understand this deeper wisdom. Just as Diwali prompts us to clean our homes and prepare to welcome prosperity, it also invites us to clear our minds and make room for growth and understanding. By investing in learning and self-awareness, we ensure that the blessings we receive are lasting and truly fulfilling.
The Ripple Effect: How Knowledge and Growth Impact Society
Just as light spreads from one diya to another, the growth we experience also radiates outward, impacting others. Reflecting on our family’s Diwali celebration this year, I realized how much this togetherness means not only to us but to those around us.
For instance, after walking my sister to her e-rickshaw, the driver told her how our closeness inspired him to reconnect with his own sister, whom he hadn’t visited in a long time. Hearing this, I was filled with a unique sense of happiness — it reminded me that small gestures and family bonds have a way of sparking positive changes, even in strangers. Just like Diwali lights up our homes, our actions can inspire others to bring light into their own lives, creating a ripple effect of goodwill and unity.
Diwali’s Nostalgia: Finding Light in Shared Memories
Reminiscing with my siblings about those early years also reminded us of the little things that added magic to our lives — counting stars on the rooftop, sharing stories under the night sky, and simply being together. Today, the stars may be fewer and the world busier, but these memories continue to shine brightly, illuminating our minds and hearts.
Diwali gives us the chance to relive these moments, to be grateful for the love we’ve shared, and to strengthen the bonds that ground us. It’s these memories, these connections, that keep us resilient and remind us of who we are and where we come from. The laughter, warmth, and togetherness we share give us the strength to face any adversity with optimism and love.
Conclusion: Diwali’s Blessing of Light and a Wish for Growth
The mantra “Tamaso ma jyotirgamaya” — “Lead us from darkness to light” — captures Diwali’s essence perfectly. This journey from childhood memories to a deeper understanding of the festival reflects how Diwali is not just a celebration of external lights but an invitation to keep our inner flame burning brightly. May we carry forward this light in all aspects of life, sharing it through our actions, kindness, and personal growth.
As we celebrate Diwali, may it bring strength, peace, and purpose, helping us embrace both joy and inner illumination. Wishing everyone a Diwali filled with light, laughter, and love.
Quiet Reflections 